Bright Eyed Girl To love and to be loved. Lets hope that is enough.

// An open letter to myself.//

Please love yourself. Be charitable in your criticisms of yourself. Accept those things which have come pre-installed on your vast hard drive like your clumsiness. Suppose you just needed the extra space for more useful things like drawing and the history of various subcultures of heavy metal music.There is no need to defend your intelligence or beauty. Know that no one is entitled to your being except for you. Adorn yourself the way you want and know that you are the captain of your own ship. The complexities of the world can be utterly frightening. Question everything. Keep your mind wide open like those beautiful eyes of yours. Be critical to the point where you can feel the heavy burden of these seemingly unanswerable questions. Then, step outside and let nature rob you of all your skepticism. Remember to let go. Remember to breathe. The finality of life is inevitable. Life cannot be quantified. Work hard at what you do, knowing that what you are doing is the best possible thing you could be doing- or not doing at this moment. And if it isn’t- work hard to change that. Life is too short to die over and over at the hands of regret. Hold yourself accountable to these things. Stop lying to yourself. Have compassion and strive for understanding over being understood. Everyone is worshiping something. 
Love and love some more. Take it easy. 

me

pennylessproud:

when the teacher comes around to collect your homework

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Emma Watson is muggle Hermione in all the best ways.

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sunflower-mama:

lesmemoirs:

blametherapistneverthevictim:

 

i’ve found my favourite 

WELL SHIT

sunflower-mama:

lesmemoirs:

blametherapistneverthevictim:

 

i’ve found my favourite 

WELL SHIT

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  • Me:

    Who's a good boy?

  • Dog:

    ???????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????????

  • Me:

    YOU'RE A GOOD BOY!

  • Dog:

    !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Feminism is not about who opens the jar.

It is not about who pays for the date. It is not about who moves the couch. It is not about who kills the bugs. It is not about who cooks the dinner. It’s not even about who stays home with the kids, as long as the decision was made together, after thinking carefully about your situation and coming to an agreement that makes sense for your particular marriage and family.

It is about making sure that nobody ever has to do anything by “default” because of their gender. The stronger person should move the couch. The person who enjoys cooking more, has more time for it, and/or is better at it should do the cooking. Sometimes the stronger person is male, sometimes not. Sometimes the person who is best suited for cooking is female, sometimes not. You should do what works.

But it is also about letting people know that it is okay to change. If you’re a woman who wants to become stronger, that’s great. If you’re a man who wants to learn how to cook, that’s also great. You might start out with a relationship where the guy opens all the jars and the girl cooks all the meals, but you might find that you want to try something else. So try it.

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allthingseurope:

Paris (by Max ☢)
I provide the comic relief to my own story. \ 'And you don't have to be No one's biography They'll try to write you down And hope you go crazy.'